My husband took it upon himself to try to search on his own for my birthparents.  With today's technologies, he found my birthmother.  Now here is my question.  I told him I don't want to know who she is, however I do know her first name (deborah).  I don't feel right knowing who she is when she did not want her info released to me in 2006 when I did my original search.  What would you do?  My case worker told me to request another outreach but offered no other guidance in that area and made no reference to that fact that I have her info.  Please help, I feel bad invading her privacey and her life,howver she is preventing me from meeting me birth father.  Thanks for your time!